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The Luxury of Stillness: A Reminder to Pause in Everyday Life
Every day, I sit down with my journal, reflecting on what happened, how I could do better, and what’s been weighing on my mind. I often worry—about finances, my partner’s health, our fertility journey, balancing friendships, my own health, and my weight loss goals. I get so caught up in striving, fixing, improving, that I forget to be grateful for the life I have right now. This insight hit me when I came across a post on Instagram. It listed small luxuries of adult life: dri
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Jul 52 min read


When Everything Feels Like Too Much
Have you ever had one of those weeks where nothing is catastrophic on its own, but by the end of it you feel completely and utterly exhausted? Not because of one big event. Because of twenty small ones. This week reminded me that overwhelm rarely arrives all at once. It creeps in quietly. An unexpected bill. A busy week at work. A difficult appointment. A disappointing result. A change of plans. A challenging conversation. A responsibility that nobody else seems to notice. In
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Jun 142 min read


When a Full Life Starts Feeling Full - Balancing Ambition and Rest
My calendar is very full this month. Work is busy. Life is busy. Socially, it feels like every week has something happening. I’m currently running a project that has four events within itself, whilst also planning another work event at the end of the month. On top of that, there are appointments, life admin and all the little invisible tasks adulthood comes with. And somehow… we are only halfway through the month. Socially, it has actually been really lovely. I’ve been for br
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May 173 min read


Embracing Awareness: A Journey from Fixing to Understanding
I thought I needed to fix myself. Instead, I learned to understand my patterns—and that changed everything.
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Apr 234 min read


Half-Term Reflections: A Week of Change and Transition
A week of endings and new beginnings—wrapping up work, adventures, and reflection before stepping into an exciting new chapter.
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Feb 22, 20252 min read


Why Emotional Intelligence Will Be the Most Valued Skill in 2025
Emotional Intelligence will be the most valued skill in 2025, enabling empathy, collaboration, and leadership in a rapidly changing world.
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Jan 5, 20253 min read


How to Bounce Back After a Rough Week
We've all been there: a week that seems determined to throw every curveball imaginable. This past week has been one of those for me. It’s been filled with challenges, setbacks, and moments of frustration. But I’ve learned that it’s not about avoiding these tough weeks—it's about how we pick ourselves back up. Let me share my story and some strategies that have helped me bounce back. My Rough Week This week has not been the one for me. I’ve made poor food choices, repeatedly o
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Jun 28, 20243 min read


The Power of No: Embracing Boundaries for a Balanced Life
In our fast-paced world, filled with endless demands and opportunities, the ability to say "no" has become a crucial skill. Whether it's declining an extra project at work, turning down social invitations, or setting limits in personal relationships, saying no is fundamental to maintaining a healthy, balanced life. Here, I explore the importance of this often underappreciated word and how it can positively impact your overall well-being. Why Saying No Matters 1. Protects Your
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Jun 24, 20243 min read


Lazy No More - 8 Japanese Techniques to Overcome Laziness
Hey there, fellow couch potatoes! If your idea of a strenuous workout involves reaching for the remote, and you consider napping an extreme sport, you might just be the poster child for laziness. Fear not, my slothful friends, because the Japanese have come to the rescue with their arsenal of techniques to kick laziness where the sun don't shine. Here are 8 Japanese techniques to overcome laziness, guaranteed to transform you from a couch-spud to a go-getter: Ikigai - A reaso
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Mar 8, 20243 min read
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